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PLV Scholarship

2026 Patricia Lynn Vermeulen-Tomocik (PLV) Scholarship

Graduating high school seniors in Orange County, California, are welcome to apply for the 2026 PLV Scholarship. I founded the scholarship in 2019 in loving memory of my mother, Patricia…

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January 30, 2026
PLV Scholarship

2025 PLV Scholarship Winner Fares Nassar on Immigrating from Syria and Rebuilding His Life in Orange County, CA

I am honored to introduce this year’s Patricia Lynn Vermeulen-Tomocik (PLV) Scholarship recipient: Fares Nassar, a remarkable young leader whose integrity, resilience, and unrelenting pursuit of education embody the spirit…

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August 9, 2025
PLV Scholarship

2025 Patricia Lynn Vermeulen-Tomocik (PLV) Scholarship

Graduating high school seniors in Orange County, California, are welcome to apply for the 2025 PLV Scholarship. I founded the scholarship in 2019 in loving memory of my mother, Patricia…

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February 18, 2025
  • PLV Scholarship

    PLV Scholarship Winner: Kaylee Johnson on Childhood Poverty in Orange County, California

    October 15, 2019 / No Comments

    In my last post, I noted the dispiriting increase of rates of serious mental illness in Orange County youth. There was, however, another principal area of concern identified in last year’s Conditions of Children in Orange Country report: childhood poverty. The sobering facts are detailed across several pages, broader trends backed up by a robust compilation of statistical data. I’ve highlighted some of the major findings here. Although unemployment rates remain low and the market has had an amazing run since the recovery from the Great Recession, economic well-being has been declining in recent years for OC youth, with almost half of children — 49.1%, to be exact — eligible…

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    2021 PLV Scholarship Winner: Nina Yến Nhi Nguyễn on Constructing Her Cultural Identity and Initiating Empowering Conversations

    October 26, 2021

    The Patricia Lynn Vermeulen-Tomocik (PLV) Scholarship

    April 8, 2019

    2022 PLV Scholarship Winner: Natalie Salvatierra on OCD, Anxiety & Striving to Make an Impact

    September 3, 2022
  • PLV Scholarship,  Psychology

    PLV Scholarship Winner: Rosiana Falzon on Mental Wellness

    September 4, 2019 / No Comments

    A couple of years ago, I attended a presentation on the health and well-being of children in my home community of Orange County, California. The event was hosted by my local chapter of Junior League, JLOCC, and organized by the Orange County Children’s Partnership (OCCP). Each year, OCCP releases a report that summarizes community progress on matters related to health, safety, and education. I was heartened to see positive 10-year trends in several key areas (as also reflected in last year’s more recent report):  OC kids are healthier than they were a decade ago, with greater access to healthcare, higher rates of immunizations, fewer teen births, and lower preterm and…

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    2023 PLV Scholarship Winner Anita Tun on Political Advocacy & Activism

    August 22, 2023

    2023 Patricia Lynn Vermeulen-Tomocik (PLV) Scholarship

    March 2, 2023

    2020 PLV Scholarship of Orange County Winner: Alexis Votran on Everyday Activism

    October 14, 2020
  • PLV Scholarship

    PLV Scholarship Winner: Iliana Goodhew on Immigrating to America and Her Father’s ALS

    July 18, 2019 / No Comments

    Due to generous donations from my sister Michella, my aunt Ginny, and my father Tom, I was able to kick off the Patricia Lynn Vermeulen-Tomocik (PLV) Scholarship’s first ever awards season by helping to select not just one, but three winners. The PLV Scholarship was founded in memory of my mother Patricia (1952-2014), whose giving spirit spread love, beauty, and happiness to those who knew her, those people who were made to feel special and appreciated by her genuine warmth and compassion. When the Scholarship Board reviewed applications last May, there were several outstanding candidates worthy of recognition. Board members, however, unanimously agreed that three applicants stood out as particularly…

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    2021 PLV Scholarship Winner: Nina Yến Nhi Nguyễn on Constructing Her Cultural Identity and Initiating Empowering Conversations

    October 26, 2021

    2020 PLV Scholarship of Orange County Winner: Alexis Votran’s Interview

    December 20, 2020

    2025 PLV Scholarship Winner Fares Nassar on Immigrating from Syria and Rebuilding His Life in Orange County, CA

    August 9, 2025
  • PLV Scholarship

    The Patricia Lynn Vermeulen-Tomocik (PLV) Scholarship

    April 8, 2019 / 4 Comments

    For a few years now, I’ve considered the possibility of someday starting a charitable fund or nonprofit in honor of my mother Patricia (1952-2014), who passed away unexpectedly a year after I graduated from university. It was a project I had originally intended to start much further into the future, perhaps even decades from now. Recently, however, a women’s volunteer organization (the Orange County chapter of Junior League, or JLOCC) provided me with the opportunity to be part of an ad hoc committee founded for the sole purpose of reviewing scholarship applications from local high school seniors. The experience was tremendous, as I found myself greatly moved by the stories…

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    2023 Patricia Lynn Vermeulen-Tomocik (PLV) Scholarship

    March 2, 2023

    2020 PLV Scholarship of Orange County Winner: Alexis Votran on Everyday Activism

    October 14, 2020

    2024 PLV Scholarship Winner Beatriz Palacios on Growing Up in a First-Generation Family & Overcoming an Eating Disorder

    June 25, 2024
  • My Experiences,  Psychology

    Words of Advice for Coping with Grief and Loss

    January 22, 2019 / 1 Comment

    To be human is to confront mortality, yet death is a profoundly unsettling prospect that few people accept with total peace. Some losses seem unfathomable — such as the death of a parent, child, or best friend — but it is beyond our control who Death takes; we can only allow ourselves the time and self-compassion to grieve as we are constantly propelled forward in time, into a future without the deceased. Bereavement is a topic that hits especially close to home for me. About a year after I graduated from university, when I was 23 years old, my mother suddenly and unexpectedly passed away from an acute health condition…

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    Entering Auschwitz: Reflections on My Visit to a Nazi Concentration Camp

    October 28, 2018

    About My Mellow Brick Road

    July 29, 2018
  • My Experiences,  Psychology

    Entering Auschwitz: Reflections on My Visit to a Nazi Concentration Camp

    October 28, 2018 / 1 Comment

    Please note: The following post contains detailed descriptions of torture, genocide, and other violent and heinous acts committed by the Nazis during the Holocaust. It was an emotionally taxing yet rewarding piece for me to compose, and some readers may find it disturbing. I would urge visitors to continue reading at their own discretion. Please also note that most of the factual information contained here was sourced from my two Auschwitz-Birkenau tour guides, informational plaques at the camps, and the official Auschwitz-Birkenau website. I’ll admit, it may seem a bit macabre to kick off the travel section of my blog with personal impressions of my visit to Auschwitz. But for…

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    About My Mellow Brick Road

    July 29, 2018

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    January 22, 2019
  • Psychology

    The MBTI: Tips and Tricks for Typing Others

    August 24, 2018 / No Comments

    Princess Diana, Shakespeare, and Anne of Green Gables were INFPs. Jesus and Gandhi were INFJs, and so is J.K. Rowling. Barack Obama is probably an ENFJ, and Donald Trump is unmistakably an ESTP (in the company of Britney Spears and Madonna, might I add). So what do these four-letter acronyms represent, and why is everyone so eager to share them on dating sites, through social media, in the workplace, and — as I have done — on their blog’s “About Me”? These letters refer to a system of personality typing known as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), one of the most widely used personality inventories popularized by laypeople and mental…

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    BLM Interview: Deija Brantley on Early Childhood Education

    July 9, 2020

    PLV Scholarship Winner: Rosiana Falzon on Mental Wellness

    September 4, 2019

    2020 PLV Scholarship of Orange County Winner: Alexis Votran’s Interview

    December 20, 2020
  • Love & Relationships

    The Six Dos and Don’ts of Online Dating: Part Two

    August 6, 2018 / No Comments

    Now for Part Two of this two-part post on how to find lasting love on the Web (if you haven’t already checked out Part One, that’s a great place to start!). By now, you’re pretty much a pro and can tackle any obstacle that the online dating game throws your way, right? …Well, maybe no one can ever fully master the precarious art of online dating. Humans are complicated. But knowing what to avoid — or the “Don’ts” of online dating, as I call them — can help to safeguard your heartstrings, significantly improving your chances of finding Mr. or Ms. Right. Through a combination of webinars and personal experiences,…

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    The Six Dos and Don’ts of Online Dating: Part One

    August 1, 2018
  • Love & Relationships

    The Six Dos and Don’ts of Online Dating: Part One

    August 1, 2018 / No Comments

    In days of yore — or the early 2000s, which was many eons ago in Internet time — people treated online dating like a shameful secret, a sign that someone had “failed” to find a partner through traditional means and was now desperate (…why was it so easy for your 90-year-old grandmother and her friends to find husbands at age 21 at the local dancehall?). But times have changed, technology has become an all-pervasive force in our lives, and online dating is all but totally destigmatized. So why is it that online dating can feel so deeply draining and personally defeating for the serious dater? For one, you’re forced to…

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    The Six Dos and Don’ts of Online Dating: Part Two

    August 6, 2018
  • My Experiences

    About My Mellow Brick Road

    July 29, 2018 / No Comments

    Welcome to My Mellow Brick Road, a personal blog for sharing ideas, observations, and memories on a variety of topics ranging from travel to psychology to literature to mini gardening/miniatures to love & relationships! Now for a little bit about myself and the purpose behind this blog… I was born and raised in Orange County, California and spent five years in the UK studying English literature. While my degrees are both in English, I studied psychology for three years as an undergrad. I’ve always had a keen interest in the human psyche and am planning to begin a master’s program in clinical psychology soon. Since my mother’s passing a few…

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    Words of Advice for Coping with Grief and Loss

    January 22, 2019
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